Happy Bisexual Visibility Day!


Every September 23, Bisexual Visibility day is celebrated  to recognize and celebrate bisexual people, the bisexual community, and the history of bisexuality – but why is needed? Why is it important?

Firstly, it’s important because it helps to tackle biphobia, which is the discrimination that bisexuals face. According to Pew Research Center, 40 percent of LGBT Americans are bisexual. The Office for National Statistics suggests 0.8 percent of the British population are bisexual. However, the same research also shows gay men and lesbians are more likely than bi people to be out.

Furthermore, part of the reason why bisexual individuals face discrimination and stigma, which doesn’t allow for them to come out – a 2017 study by American University found that stressors had more of an impact because bi people face what researchers described as “double discrimination” – from both queer and non-queer community.

We also need Bisexuality Visibility Day because the experiences of bisexual people are often forgotten or ignored, because our experience are assumed to be the same as lesbian and gay experiences, and our identities are frequently made invisible or dismissed as something that doesn’t exist, by people both inside and outside of this community, which is “double discrimination.” We also have negative stereotypes – the big ones being that we’re greedy, can’t make up our minds, more likely to cheat – as well as more negative stereotypes.

The issues that bisexual individuals face is also gendered – Bi women are more likely to be viewed as ‘actually straight’, their sexual orientation merely a performance to attract straight men, whereas bi men are frequently seen as going through a ‘phase’ on the way to coming out as gay. But please remember, anyone of any gender can identify as bisexual!

Finally, if you want to step up as an ally to bi people this Sunday: remember we exist and we are valid, remember the stereotypes and assumptions we face daily, and think of one thing you can do in your daily life to help – I will be posting bisexual visibility related content on Twitter, so be sure to follow me @CaseyBrowne4.


LGBTQ+ Services in Bristol

Bristol boasts a lively and inclusive LGBTQ+ scene, so here are some of the local clubs, organisations and mental health support to get you familiar with the LGBTQ+ community in Bristol.

LGBTQ+ Organisations:

Freedom Youth

Seeing as Freedom is 25 years old; it would only feel appropriate to include them here! Freedom is the LGBTQ+ branch of Off the Record and is the place for all your LGBTQ+ needs. It not only offers LGBTQ+ counselling, but it also runs two separate youth groups where LGBTQ+ young people can meet, socialise and take part in activism activities. As an active member, it’s a great place to meet like-minded LGBTQ+ young people, especially now since everything’s online.

SingOut Bristol

Fancy singing? Well, SingOut Bristol is for you! It’s a choir run by members of the LGBTQ+ community who enjoy singing. But don’t worry, the prior experience isn’t needed, although the ability to sing in tune and harmony is desired.  

Kiki Bristol

Kiki Bristol is a place specifically for LGBTQ+ people of colour. Since beginning in 2017, it’s grown for a one-off night club to a vital of Bristol LGBTQ+ scene, showing everything from film screenings to workshops.

UWE LGBT+ Society

If you’re a student at UWE, then I can’t recommend UWE’s LGBT+ society enough – despite cancelling events due to COVID, the society plan to host online activities soon, so don’t fear!

University of Bristol LGBT+ Society

Another LGBTQ+ society, which is inclusive of all genders and sexualities. So, if you’re a student who’s studying at the University of Bristol, this may be a society you join.

LGBTQ+ Nightlife

OMG Bristol

Open from 10 pm (Wednesday – Saturday); OMG Bristol offers cheap nights out (so it’s excellent for your budget), complete with LED dancefloors, a stage and a booth for hire. But as stated on their Instagram, only the bar will be opening.

Bristol Bear Bar

Bristol Bear Bar (try saying that multiple times) is a gay bar located in the centre of Bristol.


Queenshilling is an LGBTQ+ club in Bristol on Frogmore Street, and the club offers drag performances, a bar, and a good dance. While the club has no current plans for opening, Queenshilling is one of the most popular LGBTQ+ clubs in Bristol.

Opening in 1992, Queenshilling attracts a more local crowd, where you can meet for a drink with friends or a date.

Punka Bristol

I haven’t found anything saying that they’re reopening, Punka is a offers a night out if you’re in the mood for something more indie/rock.

The Old Market Assembly

It might not be an LGBTQ+ nightclub, but it’s still an LGBTQ+ venue that’s a cultural hotspot for those who are more artistically disposed of. The Old Market Assembly is a great place to go as it hosts regular drag events and LGBTQ+ mixers, including “Don’t Tell Your Mother”, a club night that’s valued for its inclusive ethos.

Mental Health Support:

Mindline Trans

Mindline Trans is a helpline for trans, nonbinary or those questioning their gender identity and is open every Monday and Friday from 8 pm through to midnight.

Their email: mindline@bristol.org.uk 

The Website, which includes the phone number: https://bristolmind.org.uk/help-and-counselling/mindline-transplus/


MindOut is a mental health service for the LGBTQ+ community which offers different support, from trans specific sessions to an advocacy session.

The Website for more information: https://www.mindout.org.uk/

Gendered Intelligence

This youth group is run in London, Leeds and Bristol and offers support for young people who are trans, nonbinary or questioning their gender.

Their Website for more information: http://genderedintelligence.co.uk/

Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline

Similar to Mindline Trans, Switchboard LGBT+ is an LGBT+ helpline that’s open every day from 10:00 – 22:00 and has more of a general approach when it comes to any issues you may have when it comes to being LGBTQ+.


Imaan is a charity that supports LGBTQ+ Muslims, and the Website provides an online forum where folks can share experiences and ask for help.

Their Website for more information: https://imaanlondon.wordpress.com/


The History Of The Bisexual Flag & What It Represents

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The Bisexual Flag

The Bisexual flag, designed in 1988 by Michael Page, aimed to give bisexual individuals & community more visibility, both in society and in the LGBTQ+ community- this is due to the biphobia (the irrational fear of bisexuals) bisexuals face both in society and unfortunately, in their own community. But biphobia is another post for another day.

When creating the bisexual flag we know today, Page took the colors from an already existing symbol and stated, “In designing the Bi Pride Flag, I selected the colors and overlap pattern of the ‘bi angles’ symbol.” This simply means that Page was putting his own spin on the bisexual symbol- however, the biangles (or “bisexuality triangles”) origins are unclear.


Biangles (or “Bisexual Triangles”)

Another symbol for bisexuality, the crescent moon, avoids the Nazi movement’s pink triangle used to dehumanize homosexuals during World War 2. Again, that’s another post for another day. 

In terms of meaning, Page describes the meaning of the color scheme behind the flag- a dark pink, lavender, and a dark blue (and for a bit of extra knowledge, the ratio for the flag is 2:1:2) as follows, “The pink color represents sexual attraction to the same sex only (gay and lesbian). The blue represents sexual attraction to the opposite sex only (straight) and the resultant overlap color purple represents sexual attraction to both sexes (bi).” – however, this isn’t how I would define my bisexuality, as I like to define it as “sexual attraction to my gender & other genders” (aren’t labels cool like that?!) 

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Bisexual Crescent Moon

In addition, Page delves deeper into the flags meaning, adding, “The key to understanding the symbolism of the Bisexual pride flag is to know that the purple pixels of color blend unnoticeably into both the pink and blue, just as in the ‘real world,’ where bi people blend unnoticeably into both the gay/lesbian and straight communities.”[3]

Why are Communities Crucial?

Being apart of the LGBTQ+ community isn’t just about being publically in the streets at a Pride event – it’s being able to be yourself in other areas to – like at work/volunteering place. But not everyone has that opportunity, so I wanted to write about other ways of being in the LGBTQ+ community.

But what is meant by the term community? Well, to me, it means that a group of people that have something in common – whether it be sexual orientation, gender, hobby etc. To me, it means that the things that connect them them together is the core & the most important part. Cool – but why are they important?
Good question! Well, communities should be a familiar place used to bring people together to advocate and support each other in the fight to overcome oppression or stigma normally associated with a certain sexuality and/or gender identity. It’s also where we find comfort in difficult times – e.g. if someone is questioning their gender/sexuality, then the LGBTQ+ community can offer (in good faith) resources where one can find labels. or just offer words of support or encouragement.

Especially during the pandemic, communities are crucial because having someone to digitally talk to – whether about LGBTQ+ topics or otherwise – can improve ones mental health, or just make one feel happier.

Gender Expression is a Human Right

Gender expression can be defined as the way in which every human being expresses themselves in gendered terms – the way in which all persons express themselves within the different possibilities that the gender spectrum offers -like masculinity, femininity, androgyny, etc.

Unlike one’s sexual orientation (who someone is sexually attracted to – so terms like bisexual, lesbian etc) and gender identity, gender expression is eminently social in nature and constitutes a fundamental part of the way in which we are perceived and the way in which we perceive others.

So why is gender expression a human right? Well, it’s a human right because the notion of gender expression allows us to bring to light a wide variety of human rights violations that are committed on account of the way in which people express themselves socially in terms of gender, regardless of their identity. Certain legal regulations, such as those that penalize one’s dressing in clothes of the opposite gender, or certain habitual interpretations of regulations on public scandal, prostitution and vagrancy effectively criminalize those people whose gender expression goes against the cultural stereotypes of masculinity and femininity, thus putting them in a position of social and institutional vulnerability.

What gendered words do I like?

Gendered language exists – and while some may find some words that they like, being a nonbinary person (for me at least), means that finding words that are typically associated with the gender binary difficult.

But what do I mean by a gendered word – well, to get technical, gender in languages is just one way of breaking up nouns into classes or categories. A noun is a part of language that names a person, place, thing, idea, action or quality. For example, nouns can refer to an individual name of a person. Like Mike or Amrita. Also, it can refer to a place or thing. 

So here are some of all the “gendered” words that I like: sibling (as opposed to sister), spouse/partner/significant other (as opposed to girlfriend or wife), person (as opposed to girl), handsome, cute, uncle

How would I Like to Dress in the Future?

On Monday I wrote a piece on gender identity vs gender expression, which is something I believe to be deeply personal to everyone regardless of gender identity. So how do I, a trans nonbinary person, want to express my gender going forward?

The answer is more simple than you think – generally, I want to dress the same as I currently do – i.e. wearing traditionally masculine items of clothing (e.g. flannel shirts, jeans etc). So for me, I still want to feel extremely gender neutral and androgynous, & this is the best way for me to express that (bear in mind that I’m only one person and every nonbinary person is different). Other than that, I would like to wear more dramatic pieces of clothing (e.g. floral shirts).

Furthermore, I’m still pretty certain that I want to socially transition – meaning that I want to change my name to Casey and replace “Ms” with “Mx” (Mx is basically a gender neutral title that replaces “Mr”, “Mrs” etc). Though in terms of my physical transition, Testosterone is still something I don’t want to take, & top surgery is still something I’m still unsure of.

On Being Bisexual & Nonbinary: A Look at Gender & Sexuality

I want to start off by saying that I’m only one person who uses both of these labels – so obviously I can’t speak on behalf on anyone else’s experiences. Secondly, this post isn’t meant to invalidate pansexual peoples experiences. Anyway, as you are aware – I’m a nonbinary bisexual person. This may seem contradictory seeing as bisexuality is typically seen as a sexual attraction to men and women – but continues to be — defined as an “attraction to all genders,” “attraction beyond gender,” and “attraction regardless of gender” in addition to “attraction to men and women.” 

The two identities also have more in common than one may think – for example, people who claim that attraction, for example, to men and women is impossible (which isn’t true – because as any great bisexual person will tell you – “why not both?”) reveals a lot about how we view & understand ones sexual orientation – as something that is binary (i.e. you’re either straight or gay with no wriggle room). But it can also reveal something about gender – we see it as binary (which it isn’t. So why are they then similar? Well, because, they both challenge our view on gender & sexuality.

I’d like to show you this quote from the American Institute of Bisexuality:

Please also note that attraction to both same and different means attraction to all. Bisexuality is inherently inclusive of everyone, regardless of sex or gender.


Before you retort, “but ‘bi’ means ‘two,’” click here). We’ve been describing our sexuality in terms of attraction to all genders for decades – some Bisexuals are already drawn towards all the genders for which society teaches the framework, which remains two – which isn’t true because gender exist on a spectrum.

If you don’t already know what the term nonbinary means, it’s both an umbrella term & identifier that refers to anyone who isn’t strictly male or female – it’s all the identities in between male and female. So if we accept that nonbinary identities are an element in sexuality, then bisexuality essentially includes all gender identities. It isn’t merely a simplistic model of half attraction to men, half attraction to women — it’s a complete identity in its own right, where no particular identity is a dealbreaker.

Furthermore, unlike straightness and gayness, however, bisexuality resists this gender link. In her article, “Playing with Butler and Foucault: Bisexuality and Queer Theory,” April S. Callis explains: “Bisexuality, on the other hand, cannot be so easily matched, because it does not allow gender to be wholly tied with sex object choice“. So, in my opinion, being both nonbinary & bisexual is something I take great pride in because my identities destabilizes the categorization of sexuality & gender itself. 

Nonbinary vs Gender Non-Conforming

Yesterday I wrote about the difference between one’s gender identity & gender expression, but today I wanted to talk about two terms that people can use if they fall outside the gender binary – gender nonconforming & nonbinary. Now, I want to say that I actually use both terms, because they both describe the fact that I don’t vibe with the gender binary (male & female), but I do understand that some may prefer one term over the other, which is fine. But one thing always remains true: If you are going to refer to someone’s identity, you should always ask what label they prefer, and stick to that one.

The dictionary definition of “non-binary” as something that is “not consisting of, indicating, or involving two.” (i.e. the gender binary, referring to the idea that there are the idea that there are only two categories of gender experience (male & female). While I like the term gender nonconforming, I greatly prefer the term nonbinary (or gender neutral) because I don’t gel with either binary gender.

Gender nonconforming, on the other hand, refers to people who have a gender expression that does not conform to traditional gender norms. Similar to both “non-binary” “gender non-conforming” is also often used as an umbrella term—although it is sometimes also used to refer to people who identify as cisgender but who dress or behave in ways that defy gender stereotypes (e.g. cisgender women is suits) – I like this term because honestly, I might not have the time or energy to give an in depth explanation of what being nonbinary is like (especially since university has started again), so it serves a quick way to somewhat explain my gender.

But these two umbrella terms are just some of the words people may use to describe their gender, because as our language grows, our understanding of gender continues to expand, and people are identifying with an ever-growing and increasingly fluid group of labels – some of these could be “gender-fluid”, “genderqueer”, “demigirl” & “demiboy” etc.

Gender Identity Vs Gender Expression

Gender is a complicated thing – in most societies, there is a basic division between gender attributes assigned to males and females. Gender can correlate with someones biological sex (cisgender) or differ from it (trans) – and one’s gender expression can also differ or conform to whatever gender you identify as. But what’s the difference?

Let’s start with gender identity. Gender identity is the sense of one’s own gender – so it ecompasses terms such as transgender, nonbinary, cisgender etc. But gender expression is a bit more complex than gender identity – gender expression refers to a person’s gender identity, but this is not always the case (e.g. my gender identity is nonbinary, but I express myself in a typically masculine way, while someone with the same gender identity may dress in a typically feminine way).

You Don’t Need to “Come Out”!

Today is National Coming Out Day – a chance for the LGBTQ+ Community is possibly tell the world who they are. While that’s all fine and dandy, you don’t have to come out if you don’t want to – or for a variety of reasons. Now I want to start by saying that I have the opportunity to be myself, because I have an accepting family & chances to hang out with other LGBTQ+ people – but I’m aware that not everyone has the same opportunity as I do.

So this first point isn’t about or for me – it’s for the people who can’t come out – and I just wanted to say that you’re still a part of the community & that you’ll be able to get out of the shitty situation someday. You don’t have to settle for a family members homophobia, transphobia etc and its more than OK to cut them off completely.

Secondly, it’s not as simple as being “out” or “in the closet” – because like most things, it isn’t binary, because many of us spend our entire lives coming out, like for a new job, a new school/college/university, or a new group of friends- having the same old conversations, expect with a new group of people.

But it’s still true that its YOUR choice when and who you come out to – and you are no less apart of the community if you choose not to come out or if you’re not out to anyone.